Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Relaxed + Happy: A Weekend in Asheville

Bekah Travel Fact: I start to get grumpy and uninspired if I don't get out of town every couple of months. No one wants to be around me, including myself. So how does a girl trying to save money manage to both save her sanity and keep it budget friendly? A drive-able getaway, of course. Since much of my travel monster nature comes from my adventuring mama, it seemed fitting that we gals should set out on a mother/daughter trip to Asheville, NC.

Here's the rundown: if you're a fan of music, delicious local bites, unique shops, and relaxation; Asheville is the town for you.

The night we arrived, they happened to be having a free concert series called Downtown After 5. There were several local bands playing followed by the always hip and super soulful, St. Paul & The Broken Bones. The sound of horns were pumping through the air and there were happy hippies swaying in the streets everywhere. It was quick to see that music is a major vein in that city with cool venues and record shops all around.

Then there's the Asheville food and beverage scene, folks. Any restaurant or bar you choose to eat at is probably going to be deliciously dynamite and full of local ingredients. A few of our samplings included Bouchon (French comfort food at its bon appetite-iest), Mela Indian Restaurant (I wanted to swim in a sea of that Lamb Pistachio curry), and Battery Park Book Exchange and Champagne Bar (good reads and bubbly cocktails together in perfect harmony). I was sadly coming off of a stomach virus, so my booze drinking was limited but that town is obviously a beer drinkers paradise. It's home to at least 10 breweries and brewpubs that I will most definitely be checking out on my next visit.

Bubbles & Books!



The shops you go in will most likely be locally owned and full of treasures. I had to keep my shopping addiction in check because I wanted ALL THE THINGS. For rad vintage pieces, check out Madame Butterfly and for endless knickknack browsing, go to L.O.F.T. (Lost Objects Found Treasures). However, my favorite find was Olive & Kickin' - a gourmet shop featuring some the of the best flavored olive oils and balsamic vinegars that will ever grace your mouths presence. I walked away with the unbelievably delicious Fig Balsamic and Espresso Balsamic but wanted to buy one of everything! [Get some here and you can thank me later.] Oh, and fear not my boutique loving friends, just turn down any street and you are going to be broke and happily dressed.

Vintage Heaven at Madame Butterfly.


Another really interesting and especially relaxing experience my mom and I had was at Asheville's Therapeutic Salt Cave. This particular salt was mined from caves in Poland and are meant to be a place of meditation and healing for all sorts of ailments. Considering I had been struggling to breath with the allergies from hell, it seemed like a nice little experiment. So we decided to give it a go and tacked on a nice massage to get the fully relaxed experience. Once you enter the cave, you either get settled into a zero gravity chair or pick a pile of blankets and pillows on the salt covered floor. I opted for the floor which was basically like laying on a sandy beach in the dark with a perfectly chilled temperature. The lady working the counter walks you through all of the potential benefits of salt caves and then leads you into meditation. As a naturally anxious person, I'm usually pretty funny about being quite and left alone with my thoughts for too long (my mind can go to some crazy places) - but this was actually really lovely. I just sort of wrapped up in a blanket with a piece of salt on my stomach (as suggested) and drifted in and out of a very peaceful sleep for 45 minutes.

relaxation at its saltiest.


Do I think salt caves are magical and all curing? I've only been once, so it's hard to say. What I can say is that it cleared my head right up! So maybe there is something to this salt business after all? Even if you think it's all a bunch of bologna, I still recommend giving it a go just for the relaxing environment and experience.

So the next time you're itching to get out of town for a relaxing weekend, I highly recommend Asheville. It's lusciously green, full of yums, and hippy dippy in all the best ways.


If you ever wandered where I got it from - I leave you with my magical mother.



Peace, Love, and Getaway,


Bekah



 



Thursday, May 8, 2014

these are a few of my favorite distractions.

The internet.

As an aspiring writer and someone that is trying to be more productive in life, it can be both a huge blessing...and curse. On the one hand, I am able to easily research ideas for blogs, discover new music, watch obscure indie films, and connect with interesting people from all over the world.

Then there's my other hand - the easily distracted one. I can fall into the black hole that is an adorable cat video so fast it would make your head spin. One minute, I am reading a very important world news article or basking in the glow of a brilliant blog idea and in the next second, I am on a tumblr page with endless memes of Sherlock dancing.


i mean. C'MON. this is SHERLOCKTACULAR.


There are some truly hilarious things out there and it can be an endless sea of ridiculous if you get sucked in...which I do...quite regularly. Just in the time it has taken me to write this little bit of a blog, I have probably checked my twitter feed like 8 times, facebooked, posted a photo on Instagram, watched a how-to video on makeup contouring, and googled how to get Beyonce's body (which is a LOT more work than I really want to do). 

So how do we stay focused in a world where anything and everything is at our fingertips? Beats the hell out of me. If someone figures it out, please pass the information along. 

In the meantime, check out my  "5 Favorite Ways Bekah Loses Productivity". 


1. Jimmy Fallon Clips  

I swear, Jimmy Fallon must sit around and think of ways to make me happy. I love all of his extra little show bits but my favorites are the lip sync battles. They're all brilliant and will fill even the coldest of hearts with joy. Below is the most recent battle with one of my dream celeb besties, Emma Stone. But before you watch it, let's all thank John Krasinski for introducing the lip sync battle to Jimmy. Our lives are far funnier and more distracted with them in it. 



2. Buzzfeed Quizzes



I can spend HOURS perusing all things Buzzfeed. It's an endless sea of interesting lists, whacky memes, and most importantly - the wonderful world of top notch time-wasting quizzes. They are obviously super scientific and no one I know would take them multiple times just because they didn't like the original result (guilty). I mean, who doesn't need to know the ever important answer to "Which Amazing Woman From History Should you Get Drunk With" (apparently my love of dancing got me an exotic dancer and courtesan named Mata Hari) to "How sweary Are You" (totally NSFW but hilarious)? Everyone, that's who!


3. HelloGiggles



This is absolutely one of my favorite sites! It is an online community created by women for women (but don't worry boys, you could learn a lot from it too). It was created by Zooey Deschanel and two of her favorite gal pals as a way for women to come and share their voices in a way that promotes and praises positivity. We see so much shaming and negativity in the media, it's a breath of fresh air to see a space where women come together without judgement and choose to lift each other up instead. If you like things like how to's, laughing, real deal life issues, nostalgia, and all the best kinds of girl power - you too will adore HelloGiggles. [Check out one of my recent favorites on positive body image.] 


4. Cover Me Songs

If you love a good cover song as much as I do, this is the place to be. You will find all sorts of musical gems - the big names, the no names, the beautiful, and the downright weird. I have found loads of new artists here, but the best part about this site is how hearing a favorite song re-imagined can make you fall in love with it all over again...or getting to hear one of your favorite childhood shows like Ducktales get its theme song totally slow jammed. Thank you POW!GRL, oo-oo! 





5. Coming Soon

Anyone reading this who knows me must have been waiting on a film related distraction. This site is basically full of movie news and trailers galore! I can sit and watch film trailers for HOURS. I then carefully file the watchable flicks under the "totally worth paying for at the cinema", "wait until it's on Netflix or at Redbox", or "this is so obscure, where can I find it online" list. The extra dangerous part - they have television show trailers too! So basically, it's my own inescapable vortex of movie and tv magic. 

I mean, I found THIS. And yes, I'm fully aware that as a 30 year old woman, I probably shouldn't be so frickin' excited about a "Girl Meets World" trailer but what can I say...I'm a 90s chick. Cory + Topanga 4ever!!!!





What are some of your favorite online distractions? I could really use a few more...



Peace, Love, and Memes Forever,


Bekah